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| Angelic Mary |
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| Victor wrote: | | your not missing much anyway... |
wut you mean by that?????????? |
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2003 7:16 pm |
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| it means,,,,wait for God to bring you the right match,,,casue if you dont,,its just all headaches!@!! |
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2003 8:11 pm |
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| Hey! didn't I say in my other message that I AM TO YOUNG?!?!?! WHY YOU PEOPLE RUBBIN IT IN MAH FACE?!?!?!?!! |
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| Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2003 12:17 pm |
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| wow... you seem angry. Sorry LOL I have a talent of stating the obvious. |
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| Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2003 5:41 pm |
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OmG I'mmmmm soooooooo sorry I had a biggg headache that day!!!! And I got mad at any1 saying anything...  |
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| Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2003 7:46 pm |
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| don't appologize! lol we say your too young because in many ways I think I am too young as well. but in actual fact... it's not based on age... it's maturity. Your not missing much because dating's overrated. It's nice... but not THAT nice. |
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| Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2003 2:59 pm |
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ummm im not sure what to think, I know from experience that the things a relationship entails is difficult, sex is always an issue it is in the society i was dating at 13 and lost my virginity at 14i wasnt christian i had no faith then but now i do and feel bad in myself about doing that - at the time i thought it was the right thing to do but it isnt and i've learnt my lesson, my parents have never given me curfews or limitations i dont think they have ever thought to so i did want i wanted and had to learn my own lessons from this i have learnt that if i ever have children they will be encouraged to do things like A.) find god (had i found him earlier then i wouldnt hae made the mistakes i made) B.) wait until they are old enough to understand the full implications of their actions - dating now a days is almost always about sex and i wouldn't want my children to have to learn the way i have that dating and sex is not all it is cracked up to be. I think dating is something to be embarked on when an individual feels they understand the full implications of either marriage or sex, and i think that that knowledge can only truely be precieved later on in life. Giving numbers i think dating should start when your about 19?? if you live till your 80 thats a good few years to work it all out!
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| Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2003 3:26 pm |
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Well, this would kind of be off topic- but on at the same time??
But speaking of age. By looks and maturity, no one would be able to guess my age. I hardly tell anyone I don't know my age until they have had a change to get to know me, only because people are influenced by age, and form a bias on conversations (more times than not) Then it usually comes as a shocker when they do find out how old I am.  I feel I am mature enough to date, but I am not going to. It comes down to self-control and God's will for my life. Though I am able to carry a God centered relationship, God still has so much planned for me as a single, and I wouldn't want dating to distract me from my full potential.
| Quote: | | I AM TO YOUNG?!?!?! WHY YOU PEOPLE RUBBIN IT IN MAH FACE?!?!?!?!! |
You said you had a headache for that post, but it still rings true in my ears. This is a problem a lot of people have. We think we are old enough to be mature and understand certain aspects of life, but when you take a step back and look at it, one really is relatively young. (HUGE run-on sentence) No one means to run anything in your face, as long as no one is treated as a "youg'n", as I am often called  |
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| Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2003 10:41 am |
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Here's the weird thing. When your young you see yourself as older. You believe you should be given more respect and people should just being so ignorant of how mature you really are.
And then a few years go by....you actually do grow up...
Then all of a sudden you treat kids with little or no respect. You don't really remember that when you were their age, you felt like a grown up, and you treat them like kids.
haha the cycle continues! I know, it happened to me... |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 09, 2003 10:11 pm |
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 .....aaallllrrriiiggghhhttt......well to b honest with u....i think that you know wen u r old enough for dating....and u might break other ppl's heart or have ur own heart broken by some ppl...but thats life.....life is an adventure....and bad things & good things will go trough out our lifes while u r living it.....and we will learn alot trought it especially from dating....but personaly ive been trough alot of things  ...and i got to the piont where i relize that dating does teach you things...like whats right for you...and whats bad...i cant really explain thit right but i think some ppl get the feeling inside of it...and that doesn't mean s**......so my piont is that dating is ok....at anyage...well i shouldnt really say anyage cuz u could be too young) but after becoming a teen...thats the best age to me...and i bet ya'll that everyone has made mistakes in life but they've asked for forgiveness but u've learned.....so alwayz know wats right for u..and wats bad...but having adventures in life helps u get to know that!!!
-sara....  ........take care luvs....god bl3$s ya'll....peace out 
p.s.this is what i believe in.....AND KNOW ONE SHOULD RUIN MOTHER NATURE!!
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Well i just think that if u believe that someone is meant for u u should go for it.
I believe that me and my b/f are meant for each other. Yea we haven't had the perfect relationship but people always say if u love som eone to let them go and if they come back things are meant to be. Well some of you may think that i dont kno who is meant for me because im only 14 but i think that we are meant for each other |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2003 10:01 am |
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im 16, i started dating when i was 15 but that relationship only lasted 2 weeks and i didnt go out with anyone again till about 3 months ago, when i started going out with this girl she wasnt christian, she wasnt against it either, but was undecided, now i dont have illusions of suddenly going off and getting married at this age and i do look for the relationship to have its fun moments, but thats not the reason i started dating
i dont really have a reason, it just felt like the rite time, with the rite girl, so if u think your old enough i think u should go for u but dont just go out with someone because their easy, or because your looking for joy and happiness rite off, so basically dont go looking for a casual relationship, look got something deeper
and know that there will be tough times and good times, u just have to trust in god that he knows wat hes doing and no matter how your relationships end up its all for the best |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2003 12:14 pm |
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| Sphinx^ wrote: | | i dont really have a reason, it just felt like the rite time, with the rite girl, so if u think your old enough i think u |
good point.. but the thing is.. preteens, or young teens always think they're old enough for everything. so i think that we should always count on God. He knows the right time for everything. |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2003 12:16 pm |
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| swt_mirna wrote: | | Sphinx^ wrote: | | i dont really have a reason, it just felt like the rite time, with the rite girl, so if u think your old enough i think u |
good point.. but the thing is.. preteens, or young teens always think they're old enough for everything. so i think that we should always count on God. He knows the right time for everything. |
Everyone, at any age, always thinks it's the right time for them. Sorry, but I have yet to see a 14 year old say "Hmm I really like that guy, and he likes me, and our parents think it's a good idea, but I don't think I'm old enough for a relationship yet". HA!
Whenever there's a situation regarding you, the last person you can trust is yourself! lol |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2003 1:30 pm |
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| swt_mirna wrote: | | good point.. but the thing is.. preteens, or young teens always think they're old enough for everything. so i think that we should always count on God. He knows the right time for everything. |
I think your kinda right and kinda wrong....sometimes people like that who think there 'old' anough to do anything they want...disobey their parents go out with friends to the bar or to the movies without asking some of 'em wanna just move out out there house at like 12! My friend is 14 and she moved out just like 2 days ago!! And her dad spoils her sooo much she should appreciate her dad not...just move out....you know that I mean? |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2003 3:03 pm |
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| I think the whole thing is a matter of maturity and not so much age...I think you should at least finish school (hs), though, before you decide to have a family...School and friends are a full time job in themselves, not to mention working, keeping your spouse happy, and trying to take care of the kids when both of you are gone for 7 hours at school anyway, lol. It's really important to just talk to God about it, too... |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2003 5:33 pm |
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| Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2003 8:07 am |
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im not planning on starting a family soon, and im not planning on engaging in sex either...
and yeah i guess your rite, of course i think its the rite time...
but i tried it last year and it didnt feel rite, but now it just kinda clicks...
so i dont know...
there isnt really a definate answer to this question is there? |
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| Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2003 7:54 pm |
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| i never said that me and my b/f were even thinking about marriage . but we do kno that we love each other very much. i mean even his mom and dad think that we are perfect together , and so do mine. but that doesnt mean that we think because our parents think we are good for each other. because our parents dont think that we are ready to get married by any means. but we have been together since 2001 and yes we have been through good times and bad times . but we have made it through them . |
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| Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2003 10:46 pm |
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| Even though you may not currently be thinking of marriage, isn't that the ultimate goal in the dating world? |
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